strive for me

we tend to change
our habits
our attitudes
our stuff
because of a certain person
someone we click with
someone we respect
someone we love
why don't we change the whatever things that we want to change
just for ourselves
just for myself
just for me
it may sounds selfish
but it is our own habits
our own attitudes
our own stuff
what if we no longer
click with the person we used to click with
respect the person we used to respect
love the person we used to loved
what if we no longer have a target
no longer have something or someone to complete the purpose of the change
do we go back to where we started
do we go back to the person we used to be
do we go back to zero
then what is the purpose of the change
we do strive for something
for someone
and the important thing is
we do also must reach for the end of what we started
for ourselves
we make ourselves better not for anyone to see
not for you to see
and most certainly not for them to see
we make ourselves better because we need to be better
better for the future
better for what is coming
we only better ourselves
for ourselves
indirectly we will be better
for someone we might click with in the future
for someone we might respect in the future
for someone we might love in the future
they will see us as a better person
yes

we sometimes do need a little bit of a push

to kick start the process
so we should not be stopping half way while we were improving
for that
someone that we used to click with
someone that we used to respect
someone that we used to love
we just have to move on
whadabout we all give it a thought